Does your “bucket list” include visits to sacred places around the globe? If so, here are some suggestions to get you started on the pilgrim’s path. “The difference between pilgrim and tourist is the intention of attention, the quality of the curiosity,” writes Phil Cousineau in The Art of Pilgrimage: the Seeker’s Guide To Making Travel Sacred. Whether you’re planning a family vacation to Disney World or a trek across the 500-mile El Camino de Santiago (The Way of St. James), it possible to make travel sacred and meaningful. Below are some tips to help you conceptualize sacred travel.
- The journey begins long before the pilgrimage occurs.
I first read about Tintagel, Cornwall in the early 1970s in Mary Stewart’s magical series about King Arthur and Merlin the Magician. I knew the moment I read the word “Tintagel” I had found a home – maybe in a previous lifetime. Now, after having been there twice, I am even more convinced of my spiritual connection to this breath-taking place.
If there are such places for you, know that your heart and spirit yearn for them, and that you are being called to go. Learn all you can about a place and its people. The trip is then more meaningful, and you can ask more knowledgeable questions when you arrive.
- Ask for blessings and prayers from your elders.
During a pilgrimage, it often is wisdom (not always knowledge) that we seek, but rather a knowing deep within us. Our elders, who have travelled many more days on Earth than us, are a source of strength and comfort when we’re far from home. Gather people who love you and ask their blessings for your travels.
- Pack lightly and sit on your suitcase.
I always take one bag and a backpack when I travel, and usually my bags are weighted with more books, journals and pens than clothes. Cousineau suggests that, a couple of hours before departure time, you sit on your suitcase. This act calms you, connects you to what’s inside, and helps you remember anything you’ve forgotten.
- Take gifts.
True pilgrimage is both receiving and giving. Bring gifts for hosts, or children or elders you may meet. Bring gifts to pay homage to sacred places. During my first pilgrimage to Glastonbury I brought scallop shells, the symbol of pagan pilgrimages long before they became the symbol of the Way of St. James. On my second visit, we scattered herbs at sacred sites, and tied small ribbons to trees (the birds, we learned, feather their nests with them).
- Plan, but allow room for flexibility and spontaneity.
For 14 years I took students to a Lakota reservation for spring break. We carefully made travel and accommodation plans well in advance. But you can’t always control air travel! So accustomed to rigid academic schedules, it was difficult for some students to be flexible with fluid planning when activities needed to be sandwiched between daily activities of our hosts, or South Dakota’s unpredictable weather forced changes within minutes.
- Allow space for serendipity.
The White Spring in Glastonbury bubbles deep in the womb of the Earth Mother. The cave-like area that encloses the spring is sacred to pagans and others. My friend and I exited the cave filled with joy and communion with the elements, to be greeted by two young men wearing suits and riding bicycles – Mormon missionaries. They stopped us, asking if we would explain the concept of the Goddess and paganism to them. We were delighted to do so, and a wonderful, unexpected exchange occurred.
- Every being – not only human – you meet is your teacher and guide.
I camped alone in the Blue Ridge mountains some years ago and had an incredible conversation with a Fox. I hiked around Bear Lake in Rocky Mountain National Park and a Chipmunk crawled into my palm. I have stood eye-to-eye with a Buffalo, and saw amusement and tenderness in his eyes. Hawk has flown by me at waist level, so close I could have touched her wing, and Eagle has soared so low over my head I could see his talons folded against his body.
I learned about rebirth from the sacred Yew tree. I have drunk healing water made from sage and other sacred herbs at Sundance ceremony. Mother Ocean is the one constant in my life. My heart belongs to her waters and her shore.
- Be still and silent.
Take time every day to simply sit with your experience. Be present in each moment. Write – journal, write a poem, write a letter. Draw, paint. Take some pictures, but don’t see everything through the lens of a camera. Use all your senses to help you be present.
- Bring the pilgrimage home with you.
Create an altar of the objects you brought home in homage to the place and the people, and in gratitude for safe travel and wisdom. Rewrite your journal, filling in details. Draw more pictures from memories or photos. Make a recording of music you heard on your travels. Cook a commemorative meal and invite friends to hear your tales.
- Keep the pilgrimage alive.
Continue to learn about the sacred places you visited. Keep up with news about it. Stay in touch with the people you met. Continue to write about your ever-evolving learning.
Finally, know that you don’t have to travel around the world to experience the gifts of pilgrimage.
“True pilgrimage changes lives,” says Martin Palmer in Sacred Journeys, “whether we go halfway around the world or out to our own backyards.”
Blessed journey to you!
Thank you for this, Deb! I have longed for a pilgrimage to Cornwall! Whoa! As I was typing my cat, Morgan intentionally knocked over my glass of wine! (He doesn’t like it when I go away…) I am going to do all these things, and I know a pilgrimage will manifest!
Hi Robin, I so hope a pilgrimage to Cornwall comes to you. It is, indeed, a magical place. Thank you so much for reading my blog! Blessings, Deb
I love what you say here. I’ve taken 3 pilgrimages over the years — all on the Way of Saint James in Spain — and I agree that it’s important to extend the pilgrimage beyond your actual itinerary. After my first pilgrimage I came home to purge the excess from my life and live more simply. Each time there has been some life lesson that changed the way I live.
One comment on the scallop shell: Everything I’ve ever read traces that pilgrim symbol to Santiago, as early as the 12th century. The consensus seems to be that there was an abundance of these shells in Galicia and the pilgrims used them for drinking their water. I saw the shell represented in all of the medieval cathedrals in Northern Spain, so I’m curious to know more about its pagan history prior to El Camino de Santiago. Do you know where I can look?
Hi Dominick, Thank you so much for your comments on this blog post. I love hearing about other people’s pilgrimages. I found the information about the scallop shell being a symbol of pagan pilgrimage back in 2011 from two sources: “Pilgrimage to Heresy” blog and “Camino Wiki.” Hope that helps! Peace and blessings, Deb
What a beautiful, deep essay on pilgrimage, Deb! Your wisdom and how you express it are so inspiring. Thank you!
Thank you Jemila! I wrote this post as a sequel (in my mind, at least) to my post about Sacred Geometry. I’m longing for Avalon at the moment, and this just had to be written. I so hope you’re well! Much, much love to you!
I carry Avalon Essence in my soul and when I remember to reflect to it…I find both strength and comfort—–My heart stands strong in its gifts.
Bless you Linda! I’m so glad we share the gifts of the Isle of Avalon! Love to you!
You’re truly a blessing Deb. Thank you for your insight and sharing it with us xxx
Thank you Niki for reading my blog! Blessings to you, Deb.